I admire your courage m'lady Moving on is never easy, from any side of the coin. A coin has 2 faces just as relationships...sometimes when we flip the coin over the other side that we thought all along was the same as us turns out to be different and unless we melt it down and reforge it into something new we never find out who we are in the first place. I am proud to know you Hil Create a list of life, a real, deep, true to your toes list of who you are, then write one of who your perfect soul mate is and the universe will provide the answer Love Wal
I'm friends with your Aunt Teri and I stumbled upon this story quite by accident and have to say how much I enjoyed reading it (and your illustrations). Your story parallels my sister’s relationship/marriage and subsequent divorce a year later and it brought tears to my eyes. I suppose the most difficult thing is the not knowing why and trying to figure out "what we did wrong and how we can or could have fixed it," whatever it is! Sometimes it is totally out of our control and no matter how hard we try, it will never make sense. I suppose we all need validation and we must allow ourselves permission to move on, even if that validation or answers to why never comes. It seems you have reached that place. I hope you are able to find peace and that you will be able to trust and love again. We all deserve to be loved and to love. You are very talented and I enjoy viewing your cartoons. I believe you should share your talent with a wider audience and that your story speaks to so many people who have been in similar situations and relationships. Your story is to be continued and I look forward to reading about it.
This story (part 1) started as a happy story. Part 2 is kind of a major bummer. I demand you pull your shit together and make this into an epic happy ending with part 3.
I'm the author of the blog My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce. I found your post while Googling something on mine. I just had to drop a line and comment that I can relate. Sucks.. and yet here we are living life just fine, and most likely in some ways better, after time passes. Sending you hugs and love... Lia
I admire your courage m'lady
ReplyDeleteMoving on is never easy, from any side of the coin. A coin has 2 faces just as relationships...sometimes when we flip the coin over the other side that we thought all along was the same as us turns out to be different and unless we melt it down and reforge it into something new we never find out who we are in the first place.
I am proud to know you Hil
Create a list of life, a real, deep, true to your toes list of who you are, then write one of who your perfect soul mate is and the universe will provide the answer
Love
Wal
I'm friends with your Aunt Teri and I stumbled upon this story quite by accident and have to say how much I enjoyed reading it (and your illustrations). Your story parallels my sister’s relationship/marriage and subsequent divorce a year later and it brought tears to my eyes. I suppose the most difficult thing is the not knowing why and trying to figure out "what we did wrong and how we can or could have fixed it," whatever it is! Sometimes it is totally out of our control and no matter how hard we try, it will never make sense. I suppose we all need validation and we must allow ourselves permission to move on, even if that validation or answers to why never comes. It seems you have reached that place. I hope you are able to find peace and that you will be able to trust and love again. We all deserve to be loved and to love. You are very talented and I enjoy viewing your cartoons. I believe you should share your talent with a wider audience and that your story speaks to so many people who have been in similar situations and relationships. Your story is to be continued and I look forward to reading about it.
ReplyDeleteThis story (part 1) started as a happy story. Part 2 is kind of a major bummer. I demand you pull your shit together and make this into an epic happy ending with part 3.
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Here here! Part 3 has potential to be the best of all.
ReplyDeleteI'm the author of the blog My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce. I found your post while Googling something on mine. I just had to drop a line and comment that I can relate. Sucks.. and yet here we are living life just fine, and most likely in some ways better, after time passes. Sending you hugs and love... Lia
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